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Have you ever thrown dirty looks at a parent whose child is throwing a tantrum? Stared in horror as someone bites into a greasy cheeseburger? Nodded mutely at a friend's tale of career/relationship/family woes and thought she was making a crazy choice?

 

Yeah, me too. We've all been there. Frankly, anyone who says they haven't been judgmental is probably lying or in denial, since few of us are so self-evolved that we don't pass judgment on others.

 

 

Can this site be defamatory as I dont know if any one has come a cross a one worded post before.

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The thing is, being judgmental is not a behaviour that serves us. Let's face it: we judge others because we need to feel better about ourselves. It may make us feel superior or secure in the short-term, but the long-term stress of never feeling good enough can lead to a host of health issues.

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Become aware of your behaviour. They say admitting you have a problem is the first step in recovery, right? Some of us might not even realize that we are being derogatory. Start noticing the thoughts you have about others that err on the side of criticism. Then consider why you might have had those thoughts in that moment – were you feeling self-conscious? Defensive? Angry? Tired? Hungry? The sooner we start to recognize our judgmental behaviours and discover the true reasons behind them, the sooner we can deal with them, work on letting them go, and move on with our lives.

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umm... ok?

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And why as this been posted to General Legal Issues ?...throws dirty look:-)

 

Thread moved to Bear Garden.

 

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Umm, and the point of this, is ?

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