bullying disabled

[dizzychick1458]

I have a severely disabled son who cannot talk walk or speak

he also suffers from seizures due to fatigue

 

our neighbour has constantly had a vendetta against us for the last two years

 

subjecting us to loud music

 

doors banging

 

and surround sound on till early hours

 

we are in council property and he is home owner

 

local authorities say there is nothing they can do as he is home owner

 

this man has upset everyone in our village over the years and

 

very few people have anything to do with him and has accused them of being racsist along with ourselves

 

we are most definitely not

 

my sons health has gone down hill fast as has mine as feel really low and alone

 

has anyone got any ideas I do keep a log of what goes on

[kirkbyinfurnesslad]

Get an injunction against him

[dizzychick1458]

can I do that and is it a lot of money to do

[BankFodder]

I don't know what the rules are - but I would suggest that it might be one for the police - if you can get them to tale notice.

Whatever you do, you should start keeping a detailed diary of everything that happens - times, dates etc. Try to get recordings of the noise. If you build up a proper file then you could even consider bringing a small claim for nuisance which could result in modest compensation and maybe an injunction.

Keeping good records is the key to dealing with this kind of thing.

[kirkbyinfurnesslad]

Yes u can if u hve sufficient evidence to convince a county court judge.

 

No the costs are not High

[dizzychick1458]

ty so much for your advice will now aim to do that as police havnt been much help even though this man has form for this behaviour as he drove the last tenants out

[Nystagmite]

You said that other people have had problems with him. It may help if you all got together and went to the police.

[kirkbyinfurnesslad]

The advantage of going for an injunction is u need less proof so to speak.

It's worth the money. We had to do it once Nd it was served ex parte

[dizzychick1458]

yes I have spoken to them and although they all sympathise they are reluctant to get involved as he now leaves them alone and they don't want to start him off again with them

[BRIGADIER2JCS]

Magistrates can act in cases like this, report the harassment to the police.

 

Keep a diary of events and if possible record excessive noise and/or get witnesses to it.

[dizzychick1458]

I have kept diary and have witnesses as my son has a carer come in the morn and eve for an hour to help me get him up and put him to bed she has witnessed the loud music surround sound and drilling into my sons extension wall as I had to get the doctor out who sedated my son to calm him down this is all done at stupid oclock and have had tyres done on vehicle used to transport my son and my mother as she to is in a wheelchair in next village nobody in authority semms to listen or care I feel like im a pest when I ring them he has told people he is sick of us being on benifiets and him keeping us

Edited December 14, 2013 by dizzychick1458
wanted to add more

[kirkbyinfurnesslad]

Our neighbour took offence to living next door to two gays.

I took exception to the abuse.

Went to the county court requested ex parte injunction ,this was served by process server two days letter with arrest for contempt if broken

[BRIGADIER2JCS]

Make a written complaint to the police even to the chief constable of the county force in writing recorded signed for post.

 

GO TO THE TOP!!

[dizzychick1458]

ty you all so much for your help I will defo follow all your advice do I need a solicitor to apply to courts for ex parte injunction or can I do it myself

[jackieandwayne]

And of course the Council CAN do something, the Environmental Health Dept can monitor the noise, backed up with your diaries, they may issue a Noise Abatement Notice. If your local council keep insisting they can't do anything, find out who your local councillor is and get them involved.

 

Drilling at night? I'd give him drilling, see how he likes a frontal lobotomy with MY drill. (No, just joking, don't do this!).

[dizzychick1458]

will start with them all first thing mon morn and that last comment did bring a smile ty will let u all know how I get on

[Nystagmite]

Sounds like a hate crime to me.

[dizzychick1458]

hi

would like to thank everyone for advice and support given have been to council and police as he has now taken to the web to spread untrue nasty things about us so printed them off and took them to police they now seem to be taking things more seriously as there is the threat of violence there in black and white for all to see things seem to be moving in the right direction at least will of course let you know what happens still loud music and intimidation tactics going on but am keeping detailed diary and evidence up to date hopefully we will be taken more seriously now

[kirkbyinfurnesslad]

Glad to hear. Good thing he made that move

[BRIGADIER2JCS]

hi

would like to thank everyone for advice and support given have been to council and police as he has now taken to the web to spread untrue nasty things about us so printed them off and took them to police they now seem to be taking things more seriously as there is the threat of violence there in black and white for all to see things seem to be moving in the right direction at least will of course let you know what happens still loud music and intimidation tactics going on but am keeping detailed diary and evidence up to date hopefully we will be taken more seriously now

 

 

Well done for persisting, people who behave this way cannot be allowed to get away this .

 

I hope you have a happy and peaceful Christmas!!

[jackieandwayne]

Well done. What goes around comes around, watch your back and then sit back and wait for him to get his just desserts.

[dizzychick1458]

thankyou hope you all have a good xmas to the silly man put comments on police website we have already had benefits office out due to untrue allegations the only good thing was the lady who came out knew the old lady who lived here before us so knew what he had done to her when he drove her out and was very helpful told us not to worry but said the same watch our backs

[kirkbyinfurnesslad]

Thts one vindictive Piers Morgan

[dizzychick1458]

couldn't agree more

[jackieandwayne]

This type thrives on causing chaos and misery in other people's lives, then sitting back and watching the fall out. Trouble is, when they come across someone they simply cannot affect in anyway, it eats them up and hurts them. So. Other than reporting any little misdeanour to the appropriate authorities in the correct way, this person does not exist.

 

Years ago when I lived at home with mum and nan, we had trouble with a neighbour who took exception to my mum. He used to shout abuse out his windows at us everytime we went out. Nan took great offence at being called things like "a f... ole whore" at 78! So she devised a plan, everytime we were faced with this tirade of abuse we began singing at the tops of our voices "A few of my favourite things". We all knew the words that that one see. Oh did it upset him, and it resulted in tears of laughter for us three. Together we could sing louder than his shouting. In fact, one day he was so upset he was literally hopping up and down like a frog on the front drive! It took him about 3 months but he did stop the abuse in the end. We kept up the singing until nan passed away some years later. I'll never forget her dancing past his window "when the dog bites" "when the bee stings" and the look on his face when he realised she was taking the pee out of him.

 

I expect this person isn't quite right upstairs. Sit tight, sit back, and watch. Hope it all gets resolved very soon for you.