Talking to her now and shes getting it all ready for her sister to scan and email!! Finally!! Thank you so much for your patience everyone

No, fortuntely that was the latest entry!!

Im willing to do what is neccessary to stop the they, you know me!! Aunty said mum will call.me in 30 minutes so she must have spoken with her, i think its just too stressful for her but that doesnt excuse ignoring the people who are trying to help her!! So she needs to tick the boxes? Sign, scan and send?? If so I think her sister is available to help her with that today!! All being well she will be given leeway.. fingers crossed!!

I am happy to continue helping I just wish she would communicate with me!! Ill forward this on and see what is said... thanks Dave!!!

No worries cheers Dave!!

Hmm, that would make sense, they free to send the bailiffs to the jungle lol

Mum is full on ignoring me still, it looks like she has told her sister at least that I left her and abandoned her with it...I know I may have come across as slagging her off but, what do others make of this? She was all in agreement with me previously otherwise I wouldn't have wasted anyone's time let alone my own, I have already mentioned how much of a headache it all is so id rather of let her pay and cracked on with life but you know when you get that urge to defend loved ones... forget the money.. I learned a valuable lesson here again about my mum. I can't trust her, what a sad and sobering day in my life. Thanks again to all that helped, the process is still here for others who need guidance and I am sure it is greatly appreciated by all those who need it. With regards to this thread and all those who have rendered aid, you are legends in this realm, thank you kindly

Nothing was filed due to being ignored, the last point we got to was having to tick the boxes like no to mediation etc and send back with pop collected?? This is what she failed to do

Hi Dave, I had a feeling this would be the case, I am sorely disapointed for her taking this route, thank you for making this clear, do you have any idea how much it is going to cost her?

They sent photos before but they were blurry, ill ask her again!! Hopefully I will get something today

Because of mums lack of IT skills her sister is going to scan everything in for her but she cant do it until Monday, the .oment it is sent over I will upload, i may need help redacting personal info like last time please if anyone is available to assist? I sent them a copy of your message too. Thanks HB!!

I think she still has the original court paperwork we were all.up to date with, just waiting for her to get to someone who can scan the papers properly!!

Thanks for the quick reply HB!! Does that mean there is still time to get it to them??

I just logged in to mcol and it says a general.sanctions order was made on 09/11/2023??

The last items to come through the post, They look like the old forms to be honest I just cant read anything, waiting for resend so I can uoload, thank you all kindly for your patience Will logging in to MCOL help at all??

I managed to get her to send the letters but between mum and her 77 year old sister it didnt come out clear enough to read so i have to wait again unfortunately, at least she is speaking to me though, as soon as I have something to send i will send it it, cheers guys

I managed to get a reply from her she will call me later today, I will give an update hopefully with the paperwork asap!! Cheers guys!!

My appologies HB I did mean that as well!! It has angered me to the point where I feel like she deserves the outcome. I have messaged her and explained the situation and asked her to choose wisely. I cannot do any more than that, I am not willing to lose any more sleep or waste any more of good kind peoples time. I was going to say I hope she has a good excuse but how can she have one. Tick two boxes, post at post office and collect pop. Job done.. im still shaking my head. Im so sorry guys.

I get that mate, its just how long this has gone on for, all of the agreeing she has done and me doing the donkeywork for her just to realise my mum is really just two faced. It's not the first time she has done this to me, the last time I just shrugged it off but this time its personal. Especially when she is turning family members against me. My aunty is ignoring me now so I can only imagine the stories she has been telling. I think I just need to finally come to terms with the fact that my mum is not my mum. What a plot twister for everyone lol

Cheers Dave, I have sent her and her sister a message advising them. For some reason I can just picture mum telling everyone I have abandoned her with it all part of me feels like I should leave her to her own devices for all the time, effort and headache this has cost me. What a time in ones life to realise their own mother is untrustworthy.

Hi, no snotty letter as it appears Mum has given up on it all, I havent got the energy to talk to her about it any more, she gets snotty with me abiut it, I guess some people were just born and bred to be fleeced

Unfortunately nothing has been done, I think she gave up and just paid, for some reason she just couldn't be bothered to tick a box and post it back

Thank you DX!

Thank you Dave, I seriously appreciate it!!

Hey Andy, thats all that was mentioned on mcol?