Ok for what its worth I was the person who sent the pm.
Gizitback you asked about the chat room and when it will be reinstated, out of the goodness of my heart I sent you a pm, telling you about a new site that has a chat room that is fully operational. I did this as you seemed genuinely concerned about having a 'chat room'.
This was NOT Ambulance Chasing, Advertising, Spamming or whatever else you would like to call it. I sent you the pm as a gesture of goodwill and now feel that I have been slapped in the face.
I apologise to all concerned if I have upset anyone !
darling