Hi There
this is my first post on this forum so hope I dont breach any etiquette.
I am a little confused regarding yur statement:
The remaining £20,000 would go into an IVA Pot for me (who took on many of the joint debts). In addition to this £20,000 I were also instructed to pay £285 per month.
If your wife managed to settle her debts with her share of the equity, how has it concluded that you have 'taken on the joint debts' if the debts were joint and several your creditors wouldnt accept this anyway, can you explain please?
It sounds to me from what you have said, that an IVA may not have been the appropriate way forward for you, you should not be getting further into debt. Furthermore, the review would not have been taken with a view to reduce your debt an IVA is not flexible and if you have gotten yourself into arrears, your supervisor can fail the IVA and if there is a bankruptcy clause in the arrangement (not very common these days) then he is duty bound to make you bankrupt.
You say that it was the inflexibility and attitude of your supervisor that has lead to the failure of the arrangement? I don't think (with respect) that you could expect to win that argument, there is no flexibility built in to an IVA, any flexibility is at the discretion of the supervisor.
The only thing that I could suggest is that you try and get back in his good books, I appreciate that this will not exactly sit well with you, but considering that you are staring bankruptcy in the face, it may well be in your best interests to get the IVA back on track and you need to move quickly.
Hope this helps