Job at university

[sangie5952]

I'm afraid that this poster has been banned multiple times on other sites for serious abuse of other posters. This exact same post and user name was on another site earlier this week but has now disappeared - given the abuse that had already occurred on that thread and that fact, I assume they have been banned again.

 

I have never been clear whether they are mentally ill or a troll, but either way, they need help. My advice to them is to seek that help elsewhere in the real world.

[sangie5952]

And here we go. I stayed out of this until now. Despite knowing for a "fact" (if Sam tells the truth and is to be believed) that he has said things on this thread that contradict what he had said previously.

 

Sam, lots of people had a really crap childhood. You have no idea what people here have lived with, or continue to live with. It's also NO EXCUSE. Get over it.

 

And by the way, when you answer employers questions about how you would deal with a difficult customer with "i would scream and shout at them, I won't be told anything and the customer can #### off" - as you do on the boards - then there's an excellent reason why they won't employ you. Assuming ANY if this is true, then you really need to do what I told you - and what lots of other people have told you - and get real help. You won't get what you want on these boards. And you won't survive a job or a university whilst you continue to exhibit these violent tendencies. Get help. Real help.

[sangie5952]

and i suppose the reason why i don't want a job at KFC, Burger king or McDonalds is because I AM NOT a dog. I want to work in a place that is good like a supermarket. I am not dim, i am not stupid and i am going to uni in September. I do not want to be surrounded by people who can't ad 2 plus 2. Also my stepbrother works in a supermarket and my stepsister has a part time Saturday job in a shoe shop. any of those would be ok. And I would NEVER find a girlfriend working at a place like fast bloody food

People who work at fast food places are PEOPLE. Not dogs- although most dogs I know don't aggressively attack people like you do. You have never worked. They have. And paid taxes to support you spending multiple years at college. How dare you insult workers like that?

[sangie5952]

If i was working in a supermarket or other retail then i would not scream and shout but if fast food then i would. I AM NOT A DOG

No you aren't. Dogs are better behaved than you. I have lots of members in fast food. And in retail. None of them deserve to have you as a colleague.

[sangie5952]

You really need to heed the advice that you have been given multiple times. You need help, and not the kind of help that is available on these forums. You need to speak to someone who can help you manage your anger and your attitude. Until you do those things, there is no reasonable prospect of you gaining or retaining any employment of any kind. 

You have been told this on multiple sites for well over a year, possibly even two years. It may not be the advice you want, but it is the only advice that will actually help you. 

Your best option, if you are for real and if you genuinely wish to have a future, is to consult with the mental health services, who will be able to support you in examining the way you interact with people, your tendency towards violent and abusive responses, and your inability to manage your expectations. The bottom line here is that you will never get what you want unless you address the problem of yourself.

That was said with the best of intentions. I have said it to you before. Others have said it to you. I doubt you will listen, but whatever.... you asked for a chance, and “a chance” is about you changing, not everybody else.

[sangie5952]

You did fail to attend interviews four times with McDonald's. A lot of water will need to go under the bridge before they decide that they want another application from you. There are things that are reasonable and rationale explanations for things. If you had failed to attend two interviews with me, I'd reject your applications too. Four times and you'd have to go a long way to restore any confidence in you at all. So would most employers. 

This is about taking responsibility for your own actions. You cannot blame them for not wanting you. If you wish employers to take you seriously, then you  must take them seriously. That includes at interviews. You don't go in with "a job is a job" as an attitude, or that the job is not as good as something else. KFC may not be your personal career ambition. But they have lots of people to choose from. And actually, for some of them it may in fact be a career ambition. You may not see it as anything more than deep fried chicken and fries. Not everyone at KFC fries chicken. They are a multi national conglomerate worth more than some countries. 

[sangie5952]

You appear to have forgotten that I know you "Sam". I know how the first sentence bait is intended to get a rise and "enable" you. It won't work with me. I know your tricks. And it won't work here, because, as you've already discovered, the moderators are attentive. The second you escalate, you'll be banned again. Which is the only reason that I've given you a chance. Just one.

And Sam, it's been interesting. To anyone who knows the university sector, you've clearly given away the fact that you don't have a place in September. I still haven't quite concluded whether you are for real or a troll. Either way, I think the help you need is beyond the likes of the good people here. I'm out. Here and for any and all future threads you attempt. 

[sangie5952]

And stop messaging me. I will not correspond and you are now blocked.

Edited March 8, 2019 by sangie5952

[sangie5952]

You do realise that we have been here before and this individual is banned from the site (and multiple other sites)?