barred from supermarket ...

[anangadevidasi]

The only thing that comes to mind and we should all consider is as cold and hard as it might be then shop elsewhere. I have been on the end of something similar but with a friend of my husband and he would give me flowers, cards if I seemed the least bit upset and it really creeped me out! Even though I have known him I wondered if he was getting romantic attachements or feelings, and that was purely wrong. Our relationshiop was based on friendship and it had boundary's attached that should not be crossed.

 

You must of really gave the girl cause for concern for her to report the incident and the Supermarket must of felt that there was some kind of threat warranted enough for them to warn you off. My hubby god love him did not see my point of view that his mate was creeping me out he thaught nievely it was sweet of him and I should be grateful for the gifts.....But, uh oh, no the line has to be drawn somewhere and instead of levying your resentment and frustration at the Supermarket then put yourself in that lady's shoes, and I don't know the case personally but can tell you based on how I felt that is this....She felt you where getting attached or too friendly and that you where persuing her or she was afraid you would not leave her alone....It took all my strength and might to get my hubby to see my point of view and warn his friend off! Now the guy looks at me from a distance and is sheepish around me...I don't care as long as he get's my signals I am giving him every time we meet....Back off pal, your attention is unwaranted and unwanted. Go creep someone else out! And he gets it. You should be thinking how the girl feels in this instance.

 

PS. The 'friend' of my husband does have mental health issues and whilst allowances where made in the beginning for that then this has to stop and the lines drawn so he can understand and learn. He has tried this sort of thing in the past and did come unstuck but this time it is a lot closer to home, especially with the friendship and he being my husbands God brother. People no matter whom or what they suffer should be treated the same as everyone else. PC brigade or not. I felt really uncomfortable and it put a great strain on me and my husband as I would not go to functions or be any where near this person. Even after being told by my hubby to stay away and give me space, no gifts or flowers he did approach me and I told him to sod-off in the most strongest terms I could express. Thank God he got the message.

Edited March 17, 2013 by anangadevidasi
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