Just a quick update..
The judge ordered a stay, till mid may. that's been and gone now, so I've written to the court, outlined the fact that I did contact SC&M twice to attempt to open dialogue regarding settlement, and on both occassions I was informed this was not possible.
Spoke to the court yesterday, and apparently it's gone before a judge last week, so just waiting for next step (hopefully a court date!)
Cheers
Steve