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  1. When they limit (ban) accounts, they hold the money for between 30-180 days in case of 'chargebacks' after the 180 days have passed the money is supposed to be available for withdrawal.
  2. i hope i have posted this in the right section. Paypal in January limited my account (for god knows what reason), and have been holding onto £900 ever since. They said it would be released after 180 days, however it still has not been released, are they legally allowed to do this? I have been conversing with them on facebook but they take forever to respond to messages, there seems to be no other way of getting hold of them! i have tried calling a couple of time to no avail. i just want to know what to do in the instance they tell me they will not release the funds. because its very strange that after this long period of time has passed they are STILL on hold.
  3. yes, its pretty much been a nightmare from the start. i just get very worried so come on here to moan so an exit review is not referring to leaving the programme anytime soon? i am hoping to be self employed by xmas-ish time anyway. but they will not relieve their commission and instead carry on pushing and prodding me till i have no energy left.
  4. i just tend to go along with whatever they say during each meeting depending on how i am feeling, the last one as i mentioned i was very agitated and could not concentrate. but yes from the start the whole thing is making me worse. it ****es me off as i am doing what i can to get better for myself, yet i have these people dragging me down. i am looking into self employment, i have paid out of the benefit money to do a course. i also see a therapist. im at a loss to understand what the work programme is going to do for me ? also, i am pretty certain i have not been there 2 years yet as my medical was in 2014 . so are you saying the exit review will be my final appointment ?? its not with my adviser its with someone else.
  5. and dont know what to do. currently in the ESA work related activity group. i had an episode months back, where i collapsed near the building where i have to visit for the work programme after a horrible meeting with my adviser. i called the job centre to explain what was happening with the company who does the work programme and how it was infact making my anxiety worse, they called them and had a word. and the work provider seemed a little more understanding. but now things have gone up about 10 notches, i am having to go there once or twice A WEEK. sometimes i am in such an anxious state during these adviser meetings that i have no idea what my name has been put down for. i have some sort of workshop next weds, but have no idea what it is for i am recieiving letters every few days now with ''mandetory'' plastered all over them in bold letters. my last meeting i got abit worked up afterwards, so asked to speak to someone else there, who i know is trained in mental health, she took me into a room and spent about half an hour slagging off the company and telling me how they have no understanding of mental health conditions at all. i also believe her hours had been cut back, so maybe she was abit cheesed off aswell. but she actually works there ! on the one hand its good to know you have someone on the inside who could fight your corner, on the other she is slagging off the place she works to a 'customer'. but one thing that has got me very worked up is a letter i recieved today saying i must attend on monday for an ''exit review'', with a different adviser for 2 hours!! this is along with all the other appointments they are dragging me to over the next couple of weeks . can anyone shed any light on what an exit review is ?!
  6. you appear to be in a similar situation to me in the sense that the WRAG group is actually making matter worse thus hindering my chance of working again. i have decided that if and when i am able to earn my own money again, i shall be making sure the DWP know it had nothing to do with the work programme so they get zero 'commission'.
  7. well i called 0345 608 8545 and the lady on the phone said i had to be put through to the 'job centre' (apparently) but it was an automated service, which then asked me to call 0345 608 8545 again!! :mad2::mad2:
  8. may i ask how i do this? i would not say the condition had worsened, its still the same. its just when i first questioned appealing they said the WRAG group was not anything to worry about and i would be fine. i didnt want the added stress so just went along with it.
  9. No I haven't challenged it anywhere. It wasn't so bad at first like I said. But now I have been on it a few months they seem to have changed things and it feels like a pressure on me which I really don't need. I can't see what I can do now.
  10. yes i was referred to the WRAG a while ago, but it was initially only two meetings, and i was told not to appeal as it 'would be fine' and i would only have to go in once every 6 weeks or so. and it was ok, i emailed the adviser i had at the time every few weeks with updates and what my plans were, she was also very nice. its only now they have changed everything round, new advisor 'new rules' as they put it. i am getting in a right panic about it. now everytime i picture myself in that building, i start getting a cold sweat and feeling dizzy its ridiculous but its just how i am unfortunately. its driving me loopy. i cant see how i am going to be able to go back there so often. what are they going to do to help me?
  11. Well I am on the 'work related activity group' rather than 'work programme' not sure of there's a difference? I am going to look into what you have said about business grants etc. But I also want to get qualified in something specialised as well. I wanted to start a sports massage therapy course and the one I have seen is distance learning with a couple of weekends practical , I also know who the teacher is and she is very understanding to my situation so it would be perfect. Unfortunately there's no way I can afford it even paying in installments . The company does not qualify for the 24+ government 'advanced learning loan' either which I was pinning my hopes on. So its back to square one. The WRAG company can't help with it, they seem to know absolutely nothing other than how to shove me on pointless confidence courses ffs. I have a therapist, who it very helpful and I don't want them interfering with that. I am also confused now over how many times they can ask me in for appointments and what they can ask me to do. I have seem so much stuff on the internet about only needing to go in 6 times a year! I still have at least another year in the group. (If I stay on benefits) I can see me being bullied off regardless as I find it difficult to stand my ground. As displayed when into full on panic mode in the middle of the offices
  12. Today i finally met my new advisor for the first time, and the whole experience was just hideous. First i was sat down the 'main room' which was very warm with people all around me tapping on computers. I was waiting for about 10 minutes, at this point starting to feel dizzy and as if i was going to pass out. Then my advisor approaches me and hands me a multiple choice thing, which i feel like i have filled out a hundred times, but i do it again anyway. He then starts rambling on about courses and starts booking me into all these different courses 'interview skills, confidence building' and so on. At this point i am feeling extremely nauseous and cannot absorb anything he is saying. He then takes me off to his work point, which again is not a private room and there are people everywhere. He starts tapping away on his computer saying am i ok with what he is doing, so i said 'no!', he then asks may i ask what is stopping you? My heart sinks as i know i have to go through explaining my whole anxiety panic attack issue AGAIN, for the zillionth time, a lifetime of explaining myself to random people. I start getting very short on breath, and ask if we can go elsewhere! We go to a private room, i explain everything, (nausea, vomiting, panic attacks, depression). He seemed understanding, and apologised saying he 'didnt know'. He then booked me in for another appointment in 2 weeks time, and requested i go to the library next week where there is a talk on 'self employment', this actually interests me and could be beneficial, so i hope i am well enough to go. Now he was nice enough, but i still feel very much like i am going to be pressured into things everytime i go. Its actually making me worse. And i really really really want to be better!!! As this is no life for anybody. As i have mentioned before on this forum, i have a therapist, i am on medication, i am seeking loans and funding for courses which will give me my own specialist qualification. The work programme is not going to help me in any way shape or form, and it has not helped me thus far, i just feel like another number to them. They have absolutely no understanding of any sort of condition, or why people are on ESA in the first place. I am at a loss to understand why the government think this is a good idea, and whether its actually just wasting more money. I have set myself a deadline to be in self employment by summer and get off this sodding work programme. But with this added pressure which i do not need, i feel i am up against it. Going in every 2 weeks seems excessive aswell (considering the job centre said it would be once every 4-6 weeks) and being bullied into go on different courses - which might i add would likely be no help at all. Has anyone had any similar experience and how did you get through it?
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