Hi Guys, I came to this site because hubby and myself had the same problem, i have read various threads and picked up some good advice and hopefully all will be well. May I say that this guy has not had the best experience here, considering people come here to get advice on how to resolve disputes without being judged, it didn't end well did it. I do think the moderators original comment is a bit aloof and could be seen as snippy and rude. Ok i think the guy overreacted but was shocked at the aggressive and accusing reaction of one of the posters which then spiralled out of control. The moderator should have jumped in earlier to stop it. I think that people who come to this site for help are probably already upset at what situation they are in and it might be good to remember that. Apart from that keep up the great advice.