Hello
I'm in a really difficult situation at the moment,
this is not something new, my partner is drinking around 20 to 30 units of alcohol per day, and I think they neglecting our child, I have set up a IP camera in our living room and you'd be shocked to what I have come across!
I'm in a position where I need my partner to leave I have asked them but they have refused and turned into a big argument,
I am the main tenancy holder, I am staying calm and the environment is currently calm,
I feel our children are at risk when they are drunk when I am not around but not so much because of aggression but because of the constant intoxication of alcohol misuse,
I have found video clips of them passing out drunk and the children crying for over 40 minutes without them moving, the children have not been having cooked meals when I am not home, they shout and swear at the children when they are crying,
I have one clip where one of my children is slammed down on the floor and also my child had fallen off the sofa backwards while my partner was sat right next to them and did not even try to stop this and when it happened just sat there!
this made my suspicions come out when one of my children had low iron levels and underweight and I really needed know why so that is why I set up a hidden camera!
What steps do I take to resolve this?
I have been supportive as possible over the past two years but I have got know where, I feel its time I need to take action and quickly!