Re: PayPal..
Make sure you monitor and amend any parties authorised to take automatic PP payments
- I was stung by an anti-virus company yesterday,
I disputed with PP, and the rejected the dispute.
My funding source was NW, and I don't have funds in that account..
So NW will fine me £10, but the virus company won't get a dime.
I had no idea that I had any PP authorisations to third parties.
Quite hard to find, but check it out.
For reference, I have a PP business account, and have had for ten years.
You are doing the right thing..
I ran up £40K in credit cards bootstrapping a business,
I then, in my innocence,
took out a secured loan to pay off the £40K.
After I paid the card companies back,
they gave me even more credit, which I used.
I ended up losing a house, and I didn't pay back the CC companies.
After 5 years or so, they have to give up (not sure about the exact timing on this).
No Direct Debits, No secured loans, No overdrafts!
That is what is so nice about Revolut and Monzo.
They don't sucker you into borrowing money.
You have vaults where you can store cash for your bills, and you know exactly where you are.
My experience, and I'm on the wrong side of 50 now, is that I didn't realise that these people are not really scary.
My biggest mistake of my life was taking out a secured loan on my property, which I subsequently lost.
I do have another one, fully paid for, but my ex wife is trying to grab that!.
I am now financially Zen; I have had, and lost, all that I ever wanted in life.
We all have our addictions, and like everything in life, you can actually get over them.
All is not lost.. EVER.
Life is a journey, and along the way you learn to handle it.
By the time you are old and decrepit, you will be a master.
The trick is, I think, to try and gain your knowledge while you can still use it.
I am sure many people on this forum will have been through tough times one way or another, but I am glad to say that I lost everything, hit the lowest point, survived and am now trying to build life back up.
NEVER GIVE UP!
Tom.. Xx