I don't deny a stain, nor that it was caused by myself so that is clear.
the mattress was also in good condition when we moved in, I don't dispute that.
Where my problem lies is firstly- from what I gather law doesn't dictate I have to pay for a new one, simply for a similar standard of mattress. Anything else is "betterment" and considered against the law.
Secondly she can't just make up a figure, I would like a receipt and proof of purchase.
Thirdly professional mattress cleaners can be hired for around £20 and surely this should be tried first?
From her tone and method of approach i'm tempted to just ignore her. We don't require her for a reference and I really don't like her attitude towards us.