Wow! loads of helpful advice, thank you so much.
When my HO came to visit me I asked if the HA would put a lift in the block (not just for me, there are other disabled, elderly and young families that would benefit also) she said they wouldn't entertain that - too expensive. So I said about there being a fire and my fear of getting trapped or suing the HA if I had an accident whilst walking up or down the stairs and all responded with was a shrug!!
My daughter is my carer, she comes around a couple times a week and has also written a statement. She is 38 weeks pregnant now though so I don't want her doing too much - My 16 year old son calls us hobble and waddle lol
I just feel like I'm going round in circles, but I am going to check out that link Mikey, and have a look around the council website etc. I just hate the possibility that I won't be able to return to work, and have to accept that I need help and thanks to finding this website and you great people am a step closer to accepting that my life has to change :-(