Thanks, I will follow your advice. I haven't received anything in the post yet, and as I won't be at my address for two months from Monday I have no option but to 'ignore' a letter after letter. I expect to find a huge pile of threatening letters when I come back.. Something to look forward to when I return. I just hope not to find bayliffs on my front step. I will keep you informed.

It was all happening very quickly - the papers, signing, taking of photographs - as it was closing time and it was obvious that the staff wanted to go home (once I was no longer entertaining enough). When I composed myself a bit I did try to question what I am actually signing and was obviously shocked when the photos were being taken (I always thought that only police ever does it), but I was informed straight away, in an irritated voice that if I didn't do it they'd just call the police. So I gave in.

Thank you. But can I really write that I deny any liability...., when I have already signed what they've asked me to sign? Something along the lines that I understand why I am being banned from the store. Is there a way they (Boots, rather than RLP) would except just a compensation for the 'stollen'/'damaged' article?

Thank you. The security guard claimed it was not a tester - it didn't have a "tester" sticker on but was without the box and clearly used as a tester - and that I must've removed the box. I am hoping that by reviewing the CCTV it will become obvious that the box was nonexistent. I even tried it on my face and subsequently purchased the boxed one.

Thank you. This made my breathing a bit easier today. And no, I wouldn't think of ever going back to that store. At least that's how I feel now. Too many members of staff seemed to have had a good joke opportunity on my account. I hate myself for my grovelling at the time, but boy, did they seem to find it amusing! It's the other Boots stores that I'll miss.

Thank you for your swift reply Bombaymix - sorry it took me so long to acknowledge it. (This goes to renegadeimp, 2Grumpy and Sidewinder too) The reason I'd rather that my husband doesn't find out is not that I am afraid that he wouldn't believe my story, but rather the issue of being scatterbrained. There were times in the past when I was occasionally locking myself out, losing keys, forgetting travel tickets etc. But not since we've had a baby. Now I am finally an organized, responsible adult. Or so I thought. And yes, I did voluntarily hand over my debit card when asked for an ID as this was the only thing I had on me apart from the Boots loyalty card. I just thought that he should've returned it to me straight after my name was confirmed, while it seemed that he was writing everything down. I am aware that security guards know every trick in the book when it comes to shoplifting, and that my excuse is probably the oldest one under the sun. However, these things do happen. So while he was never directly abusive towards me, he could've done more to conceal his utter contempt throughout my ordeal, despite me being tearfully appologetic at all times. And yes, since he claimed that he'd been watching me all the time, he may have somehow indicated that I was holding a tester in my hand for about 20 minutes, possibly even at the check-out. But, that would've been to gentlemanly.

Hello to you all. I am a newbie on this forum as well as in the world of labeled shoplifters. And I am utterly terrified. Two days ago I was in a Boots store inside one large shopping centre. Amongst few other things, I have purchased a tub of sun-cream for which I have paid £10.87 (special offer, reduced from £14.50). When I left the store I was stopped by a security guard who noticed that I was holding in my hand another tube of the same cream - tester - which I hadn't paid for. Now, I could (and i did!) go on forever how I totally forgot that I'd had it in my hand (as I was trying it on before deciding to purchase it) amongst other things like newspaper, a bottle of water, etc. - and this is the truth. However, the security would have none of it and had ignored all my appologies and pleads of innocence. Fair enough, after all I did walk out of the store with something I didn't pay for. However, on taking me into the designated room, despite my more than humble behaviour - I was petrified and on the verge of tears / passing out - I found the staff's behaviour rather cruel.They refused to believe me that the item in question was a tester suggesting that i took it out of the box. I didn't. I was also half-mocked by a female member of staff (the duty manager if I understood correctly) who kept saying how the police was coming to arrest me*. Furthermore, that same (and only) female member of staff wasn't present at all times as she went to the shop floor to check the price of the item. The second security guard (employed by the shopping centre rather than Boots) actually commented on it on entering the room. On her return the price of the unpaid for item was entered into a report as £15 - ok. almost the exact price before the special offer deduction. As the only means of identification I had on me were the Boots loyalty (!) card and my debit card, i gave both to the security guard who was noting down all the details provided on those. Did he have the right to do so? I was shocked when they took my picture (both Boots and the shopping centre security guy, one each) and was really given no opportunity to protest, but this seems to be the regular procedure when the premises are issuing you with a ban. Am I right? So, I was given a ban from Boots, and a three months ban from the shopping centre, both papers which I signed without objection. Perhaps I should've questioned everything they've asked me to sign / say, but at the time i was so mortified that I would've given them any information they wanted. Finally, I was given the Notice of Intended Civil Recovery and was informed that the RLP will contact me shortly and ask me to compensate for Boots' loses. I haven't slept or eaten properly since, as I am horrified that: a) my husband will find out. I feel so ashamed that I'd rather sink into the ground - we are about to go on holidays and he works so hard I really don't want to ruin his long-deserved break; b) the letter from RLP will arrive with request for payment much higher than the value of the item in question. I am a new mother who, due to prohibitive cost of childcare, couldn't return to work. c) the RLP letter will arrive in my absence, and the demand for payment will be progressively increasing, as well as the sum of money. d) as I will be away for nearly two months (visiting family), the amassing letters will arouse suspicion in my husband. Do they look rather inconspicuous, or..? e) impending pollice, court orders, baylifs etc. are to come. That would kill me and destroy my family. I would be very grateful for all your answers / help. ps. also, does a ban from Boots mean that as soon as I enter any store I will be recognised? And is this permanent? Should I phone the store manager and appologise? *police were never called