he has me so worried and sunk into a deep depression. He is just burying his head in the sand rather than picking up the phone to find out. He hasn't had a questionaire to fill out apparently so must not have been assessed. If I could find out for him I would but they obviously can't tell me anything. He hasn't spoken or held our baby in days.

my boyfriend has been on incapacity benefit since breaking his back 16 years ago. He has not yet been assessed on ESA but if he moves in with me will he lose all benefit? I work fulltime. He is a proud man and it is destroying him to think he'd be totally reliant on me and can't can't support his daughter.