littleotter
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i know i must sound like an idiot for just wanted to pay them and have it out of the way
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but to pay them will stop the letter? dont want to risk one being sent home
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the only reason i am saying i just want to pay for forget about it as they told two address of me, my uni address which i said to contact me through frist and my home address where my parents live, i dont want my parents to find out ever about this as i know how much shame it will bring them and i cant personally bear that. i just want to know if people have information about what would happen if i pay them, do they just go away and that is the end of the matter? the store manager on the phone today said that if i pay the statement given to me by rlp then no charges will be placed or information passed to the police. i am terrified and am making my self ill over this, i.e.: not eating, sleeping, constant crying. (hence seen a therapist)
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i am a girl and i am scared, i currently went to see a therapist about my anxiety. i dont not want claims to be charged on me or fear for them in my future, i have taken on board advice both on here and also via my therapist and also by a solicitor. all telling me different variation of what to do
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i have just contacted the store manager as i am in such a state about all of this, they have informed me that due to no police were called to handle the better they will not be informed and that only a payment to RLP to recover their loss will be issued which will not result in my baring to a CRB check
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but i've read article that they have up to a year for police to get involved? i dont think i could handle the stress of waiting a year to see if they will or won't
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thank you for your advice, just one last question if i were to pay RLP could that mean less chance of police involement? and how long roughly does it take for these letters to come through?
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so the likely hood of police involvement is little as they weren't called to arrest me straight away and the security guard said nothing about involving the police?
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yes i have looked at a few threads on here, but i am still panicking. i would rather pay quickly and know i was in the clear with no fear of court hearings or police records or anything that would show up on a CRB check than to just ignore the letters (by the way i havent got a letter yet and i'm worried it will be sent to my parents address as i gave the security guard my uni address as he took down my address of my DL)
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i just dont want my parents to find out as they would be so ashamed of me i've sent a letter of apology to the company Boots, i just want the matter gone. but yours sure i dont have a record? i've read that if i dont pay the police will be involved and court dates and such? i dont mind paying the fine, i was in the wrong
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also does RLP or a civil claim appear on my record? i just want to pay it and forget about it as i know i was in the wrong. it only happened a few hours ago and i'm making my self sick with worry
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what is cireco database?
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no they just told me to get out of the store, i was so embarrassed and appalled at myself. I've also been reading up that RLP could pass on my detail to a theft database is this true? also if the police weren't called there and then during the incident they won't have any knowledge of this?
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stupidly I stole some blister plasters and heel protecters from boots, they were taken out of the packaging, a security guard in normal clothes took me into a back room took my details down form my driving license, the police weren't called, and i signed a 12 month ban from the store. I was also given an information letter about RLP about making a fine/payment to them for my wrong act. I gave the security guard my uni address as i dont want my parents to know, i just want to know do i have a criminal record even though the police weren't called or i was not read my right? and how long does it take for the RLP letter to come though? i just want to pay it and forget about all of this
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