Thankyou all for advice upon reading im starting to feel a little reassured, the reason bf does not live with me is because he and my daughter from previous relationship clash, the house is a five bed roomed house hence high rent and since hb is now capped at 4 bed max i pay the extra i have 5 children hence the need for large property, when i moved here i did not tell hb the ser up but shortly after moving in the X reported me to benefits agency for fraud[was the 5thtime he had done this]i went for a meeting with benefits agency and i did tell the woman that interiewed me the set up with house, i guess what i want to know is should i contact hb and speak to an adviser there and let them know or should i just sit tight and wait for my bitter X to report me and then deal with the fallout also f he does report me again would i then be able to ave his ass for harassment? because then the next time he does this to me surly benefits agency would look at it and see that its all malicious and not even bother to investigate saving me the stress and worry?
Again i thank you all for your advice
emma