Hello everyone, if anyone can help me here I'll be extremely grateful - I've been with Spectrum for almost SEVEN years now and really need to move on with my life!
When I was younger (in my early 20's) I got promoted early in my job and got seduced into loans/credit cards by Lloyds TSB and got myself into a huge mess by the time I was about 25 (the usual sketch - consolidation loans etc:roll:). In the end I was £50K (£15k Lloyds TSB mastercard, £10k Lloyds TSB personal loan, £25K Direct Line Loan) in debt and it destroyed my first marriage. I seriously contemplated suicide for a long time.
In 2005 (aged 27), I contacted Spectrum and an agent came and visited me, he showed me the plans for me to be debt-free in 5 years and we agreed. I paid £1500 in three installments and have been paying £190 a month ever since. At the five year point I phoned them ony to be told that what I have is a D.M.P and that never meant that I'd be debt-free in 5 years:-x I have since heard nothing from them but occasionally get letters from creditors saying that my loans have been "sold" to another creditor.
I'm now 34, have a children with my new wife. Everything is in her name (mortgage, car etc) and all I have is a "little-boy's" bank account with a debit card that's accepted hardly anywhere.
I am in the Army and have 6 years' service left until I leave at 40. I really want to break free from all this now and be able to be solvent again, not financially-impotent as I am now. The mistakes I made at 21-25 are now still with me and it seems like, if I just keep going that I could still be doing this when I'm 50!
Do you think it's worth me just going bankrupt and starting fresh?
Thanks for your help.