Very useful thread
Here's what we did.
1. Cut up ALL credit and store cards
2. Cancelled ALL dd's
3. Registered for internet banking
4. Got in touch with a company called PAYPLAN based in Grantham - they charge no fee and deal with all creditors on your behalf. It was all done over the phone with a few forms to fill in by post.
It's a whole new life (and it only took 4 weeks) ..no calls, no letters, no reminders, just the knowledge that our standing order to them every month pays all our creditors a proportion, leaving us with plenty enough money left to live on.
All interest stops - and 3 of our creditors actually knocked 75% off what we owed to get it paid off all at once rather than over five years.
Gone are the days of hiding bin liners full of bills/reminders/ other various threats in the garage!
The difference internet banking has made to us is also remarkable. Instead of guessing if you can afford to go shopping, you check. If you can't, you go on the day you can. No more interest, all we earn is ours.
...Dont use any fee charging debt management plan - I've heard lots of bad stories about them. Payplan is (So i'm told) the only one that was set up by the government to help people in their time of need, and like i said, they charge NOTHING.